So many people...who do I include?

Who you include in a wedding ceremony depends on the style, traditions, and personal preferences of the couple. Here’s a mix of traditional, modern, and unique roles to consider:

1. The Couple (Obviously!)

You’re the heart of the ceremony—everything revolves around your love story.

2. The Celebrant or Officiant

A celebrant crafts a personalized, meaningful ceremony, blending storytelling with symbolic rituals.

3. Witnesses

Some ceremonies require legal witnesses, but they can also be honorary roles for close friends or family.

4. Wedding Party

- Best man/woman or person of honour

- Bridesmaids & groomsmen, or simply wedding attendants

- Flower children, ring bearers, or even pets bringing the rings

5. Parents & Family

- Walking down the aisle (with one or both parents or someone meaningful)

- Giving a blessing or reading

- Sharing a family tradition (like lighting a unity candle together)

6. Guest Participation

- Ring Warming Ceremony—Guests pass the rings through their hands to send wishes

- Community Vow—Guests pledge to support the couple

- Storytelling Moment—Close friends share meaningful anecdotes

7. Cultural & Symbolic Figures

- Including a spiritual leader or elder for blessings

- Having a friend or mentor perform a symbolic ritual

- Bringing in a live musician, poet, or wedding artist to enhance the moment

8. Unexpected VIPs

- A beloved teacher or mentor who shaped your journey

- A four-legged friend who walks down the aisle

- A friend acting as a Master of Ceremonies to guide transitions

Would you like help incorporating symbolic elements to make your ceremony uniquely yours? I’d love to collaborate!